Midlife divorces are mostly the result of midlife crises from both ends of couples that lead to relationship saturation, boredom, change in life perspectives, desire to achieve more, Infidelity, etc. All these phenomena may end up in serious communication gaps, frequent conflicts, bitterness, and eventually separations.
Author: Adhideb Ghosh
When a guy asks for pictures from you, that simply means he wants to see you, no matter how. His intentions may vary, but most evidently, it means you are important to him. Perhaps he felt affectionate towards you, which made him want to see your pictures at that moment.
If your husband ignores you unless he wants something, that refers to some serious relationship gap between both of you. A person mustn't need to be an ideal husband, but ignorance is never okay. He is either suffering from a psychological issue or emotionally involved somewhere else.
When a guy french kisses you on the first date, that means he is sexually attracted to you. The reason for this sexual attraction can be your look, your appealing approach, or as well as your intelligence. Perhaps, he interpreted something as a signal to come and kiss you.
If your ex has come back to your life after months of no contact, it can signify their prevailing soft corner for you. Maybe, after self-evaluation, he genuinely missed being with you. But at the same time, this sudden comeback could be a red flag too.
A guy asking you about your day means he wants to know more about you. Maybe he's lonely, and he's interested in you. That's why through this question, he wants to initiate a conversation. You can consider this as an approach that he's trying to be a friend to you.
Your girlfriend may always keep complaining because you're being unable to meet all her expectations. Maybe you're not giving her enough attention and validation, and through her complaints, she's exactly seeking that love and compassion from you. Or some people also keep complaining just due to their behavioral nature.
If your boyfriend has experimented with a man, it doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't love you anymore. Maybe he has always been a bi-sexual but afraid to disclose his sexual phenomenon. The taboo around bi-sexuality is still very much prevalent in society. But he might be lying as well.
If your partner can go a day without talking to you, that means perhaps he's so busy and stressed out with his life that he hardly has any energy left to have a conversation with you. But if it's happening regularly, you can try exploring other reasons behind this phenomenon.
Yes, guys generally like being hugged from behind. As hugging is an affectionate physical connection, it helps in dopamine secretion and makes men feel good. Depending on the bonding you share with the guy, he may feel loved, appreciate the closeness, and feel lusty about you.
No. You shouldn't ignore a woman if she ignores you. Maybe she wants you to pay more attention to her, or perhaps she thinks that one of you is not ready and wants to take more time. In such scenarios, you should analyze her approach thoroughly and react accordingly.
You get jealous of seeing your boyfriend having fun without you because you don't want to share your partner with anybody else. Be it his friends, family, or colleagues; you subconsciously feel insecure when your boyfriend hangs out with them. Jealousy eventually sparks trust issues, conflicts, and toxicity in relationships.
He sleeps with you but doesn't want a relationship, maybe because he has other emotional engagements. In this situation, he's just sexually attracted to you and not looking for anything else. If you've agreed to sleep with him, although he didn't make any emotional commitments, now it's all your responsibility.
Your boyfriend didn't get you anything, maybe because he thinks the relationship has reached such a mature phase, where birthday gifts don't even matter. Or maybe he has planned to surprise you soon with something bigger. But no gifts, with certain negative indications, can be a real red flag for you.
When a girl asks how you feel about her, you can simply start with, "I feel for you differently than others." However, whatever you say, say it straight and decently. When a woman asks you about your feelings, she's probably interested in you. So, she deserves to know the truth.
Your girlfriend doesn't want a prenup because she doubts your loyalty and is worried about the uncertainty of her future. She thinks what will happen to her and her kids if any unfortunate situation appears. The only solution is to engage in effective conversation to establish your point.
While driving, men tend to put their hands on women's thighs when they try to be more than just friends. But, if the person is your partner, he may touch your thigh to express his comfort or make this gesture as a romantic claim of your presence in his life.
Your girlfriend always makes you feel insecure or jealous, maybe because she wants more of your attention, and she likes when you become a little possessive about her. Maybe she wants to check your dedication to this relationship. You can heal this situation through fruitful conversations, surprises, and patience, most importantly.
Your girlfriend doesn't share her problems, maybe because she isn't yet comfortable with you in this regard. Perhaps she thinks that your relationship has yet to reach that phase to share her problems. Or she can simply be an introvert, and that's why she keeps all issues with herself.
Yes. If your crush is sending you signals, showing interest in you, or if you two are involved anyways, you're all welcome to send them a friend request. But if your crush takes you too casually, or makes fun of you, think twice before sending a request to this person.
Your girlfriend keeps hurting you emotionally, maybe because she has a traumatic past and she's still not done dealing with that. People with traumatic pasts tend to act awkward in their present life and hurt their close ones. Or maybe you're too sensitive that all her actions keep hurting you.